Here’s my calendar of upcoming events.

Check back often as I add new events regularly. Can’t get to a workshop? Try Sex/Life Coaching. Click here for more information or to make an appointment.


Even though you may not be able to see me in person this month, you can still take a workshop with me! My online course Orgasms With Spirit is available on demand! This downloadable series incorporates all the most popular segments of my internationally acclaimed in-person workshops.

In this 4-lesson course, you’ll find the connection between sexuality and spirituality by learning techniques that will add sensuality to your spirituality and sacredness to your sex life.

The cornerstone of this class is the connection between breath and erotic energy. Experience one of the most effective ways to connect spirit and sex—a breath an energy orgasm—literally, an orgasm with spirit.

Learn More about 'Orgasms with Spirit'


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The New Revised Edition of Urban Tantra is available for online ordering—in print, Kindle, E-Book , and Audio formats!


Learn Breath and Energy Orgasms at home with this instant digital download—Breath and Energy Orgasms: A Guided Meditation.

Every Tuesday

Healing Circle for Gay Men Surviving and Thriving Through Their Second Plague
Online via Zoom and the Tantra 4 Gay Men App
12 noon LA / 3 pm NYC / 8 pm London

Are you a gay or bisexual man who is living through the second major pandemic of his lifetime?

Barbara started this Healing Circle for T4GM in March 2020. We’ve met every week since. We’ve shared our feelings, our losses, our coping strategies, our flashbacks, our fears and our successes. We’ve shared our love, support and compassion. Oh yeah, and hugs. We’ve shared lots of yummy virtual hugs. The good news is that whilst Covid is far from over, most quarantines and lockdowns are, and we are able to meet friends and lovers in person outside of our homes once again. This international brotherhood has served us well. So well, in fact that we have decided to continue the circle. We have updated our name and we are now focusing on reintegration, on choices and changes and plans and dreams. Oh yeah, and hugs. There will still be hugs.

It’s available through the Tantra4GayMen app.

29 October - 3 November 2022

The Urban Tantra Professional Training Program
East Sussex, U.K.
Registration open now!

This is the signature Urban Tantra® intensive workshop. It is designed especially for—but is not limited to—people who work with sex and sexuality. The Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program will give you the skills to take your practice to the next level—both personally and professionally. Whether you are a tantrika, a pro domme, a daka/dakini, a sex therapist, a sex educator, a companion, or anyone else who uses or wants to use a more conscious approach to sexuality in your practice, this program is for you.

This intensive six-day immersion experience includes:

  • How to create gender-neutral practices that will allow you to work with people of all genders and sexual preferences.
  • Unique Urban Tantric breathing techniques and exercises to empower both you and your client.
  • How to give your client/student what s/he wants and needs without compromising the integrity of your process.
  • How the “dark arts” of BDSM (including fantasy, roleplay, conscious power exchange and intense sensation) can expand your Tantra practice into ecstatic new realms.
  • How Tantra (including breath, ritual, movement, and conscious touch) can enrich your BDSM practice with deeper and darker meaning.
  • How to adapt your language to attract and keep a more diverse client/student base.
  • The most effective marketing techniques to connect you with new clients, plus effective screening protocols to ensure that only the perfect clients arrive on your doorstep.
  • Plus a curriculum designed to accommodate participants’ individual interests.
7 - 13 September 2023

The Urban Tantra Professional Training Program
Greenwich, NY

This is the signature Urban Tantra® intensive workshop. It is designed especially for—but is not limited to—people who work with sex and sexuality…

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Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program

The Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program is much more than a training program. It is a Urban-Tantra community, a philosophy, and an inclusive sacred sexuality practice that supports both personal and professional goals

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