Here’s my calendar of upcoming events.

Check back often as I add new events regularly. Can’t get to a workshop? Try Sex/Life Coaching. Click here for more information or to make an appointment.


Even though you can’t see me in person this month, you can still take a workshop with me! My online course Orgasms With Spirit is available on demand! This downloadable series incorporates all the most popular segments of my internationally acclaimed in-person workshops.

In this 4-lesson course, you’ll find the connection between sexuality and spirituality by learning techniques that will add sensuality to your spirituality and sacredness to your sex life.

The cornerstone of this class is the connection between breath and erotic energy. Experience one of the most effective ways to connect spirit and sex—a breath an energy orgasm—literally, an orgasm with spirit.

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Every Tuesday

Healing Circle for Gay Men Living Through Their Second Plague
Online via Zoom and the Tantra 4 Gay Men App
12 noon LA / 3 pm NYC / 8 pm London

Are you a gay or bisexual man who is living through the second major pandemic of his lifetime?

Are you having flashbacks when you see healthcare workers in hazmat suits? Does your stomach churn when you see rolling obituary listings under a title like “Those We’ve Lost”? Are you afraid that your immune system isn’t strong enough to survive another epidemic? Is your survivor’s guilt through the roof?

It’s time for a healing circle. I facilitated hundreds of Healing Circles during the AIDS pandemic. It helped us all feel empowered, loved and connected. Healing circles got us through years of pure hell. It feels like time for a revival. So I’m facilitating a weekly healing circle for survivors of the AIDS pandemic. And it’s available through the Tantra4GayMen app.

Begins 10 March 2021

Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century
A Four Part Series
Online via Zoom in partnership with The New York Open Center
Registration now open.

On the Tantric path, pleasure, vision and ecstasy are celebrated rather than repressed. But Tantra is not only a sexual practice; it also is a sensuous way of life and path to spiritual growth. This workshop series will focus on modern Tantric techniques and practices that can be learned in a virtual environment and practiced in (and after) times of social distancing. The series is specifically designed to provide support and pleasure as we navigate this prolonged period of uncertainty and slowly emerge from our isolation.

In this workshop, you’ll learn Tantric techniques for intense full-bodied orgasms, amazingly deep, heart-centered connections (with a partner or with yourself), and the bliss that comes when your spiritual and sexual paths are one.

All genders, sexual orientations and relationship configurations welcome. No nudity or explicit sexual touch.

29 January–2 February, 2021

Stockholm Tantra Festival
Registration now open.

I’ll be offering my How to Have a Gender-Free Orgasm workshop at this 5-day festival featuring more than 50 workshops and presenters.

Could it really be possible to have an orgasm with your clothes on and without touching yourself or being touched by anyone else? Can you really reach ecstasy simply by breathing? Can gender really be irrelevant when it comes to orgasm? In this workshop we’ll explore the unlimited, ungendered possibilities of orgasm, specifically, the vast range of orgasms that lie beyond those achieved by genital stimulation. Using Tantric and Taoist techniques to move sexual energy throughout the body, we will experience the playful, powerful and transformative power of breath and pleasure.

10 March 2021

Ecstatic Breathwork
Online via Zoom in partnership with The New York Open Center
5:30 – 7:30 pm

Registration now open.

Breath is your greatest source of energy and aliveness. It can produce so much pleasure, it will amaze you. In this workshop we will learn and practice a variety of simple breath techniques that you can put together to create unlimited erotic and spiritual possibilities. Then we’ll use them to explore the the vast range of orgasms which lie beyond those achieved by genital stimulation, such as emotion-gasms, inspiration-gasms, spirit-gasms, or creation-gasms. Finally, we’ll do a guided meditation where you can practice energy orgasm techniques that you’ll be able to incorporate into whatever kind of sex, play or meditation you enjoy.

All genders, sexual orientations and relationship configurations welcome. No nudity or explicit sexual touch.

31 March 2021

Creating Tantric Connections
Online via Zoom in partnership with The New York Open Center
5:30 – 7:30 pm

Registration now open.

In this workshop you’ll learn Tantric techniques for building and sharing sexual energy with a partner. Simple techniques such as breath, laughter, language, presence, movement, and conscious touch can expand our concept of gender roles, help us transcend fears of intimacy, keep relationships vibrant and loving, and change the patterns that lead us into dysfunctional relationships. We can also use many of these techniques for intimate, in-person relationships to strengthen connections of all kinds—romantic or social—even when we must remain physically distant.

Once you’ve learned a few basic concepts and techniques, you can put them together to create unlimited intimate and/or erotic possibilities. We’ll practice key components of sacred sex, such as: the Resilient Edge of Resistance, giving and receiving, consent, boundaries, witnessing, creative communication, the Microcosmic Orbit, chakra connections, energy weaving, and ecstatic breathwork.

All genders, sexual orientations and relationship configurations welcome. No nudity or explicit sexual touch.

21 April 2021

Sex Magic
Online via Zoom in partnership with The New York Open Center
5:30 – 7:30 pm

Registration now open.

Sex magic is the art of transforming real but invisible sexual energy into real and visible results. We practice sex magic when we consciously use our sexual energy to fuel our hopes, dreams and desires. You can dedicate your erotic energy for the benefit of yourself, your community and your world.

In this workshop you’ll practice techniques that will enable you to unite your sexual power with your spiritual power and the power of your desires. We’ll use breathwork, metaphysics, chakra meditation and Tantric techniques to create sex magic for healing (yourself and others), to alleviate pain and fear, to soothe emotional wounds, to practice forgiveness, to increase business, to empower social causes, and even to come to terms with death. The workshop will include a sex magic meditation that will allow you to practice sex magic for a personal desire or cause.

All genders, sexual orientations and relationship configurations welcome. No nudity or explicit sexual touch.

12 May 2021

Taking Erotic Risks
Online via Zoom in partnership with The New York Open Center
5:30 – 7:30 pm
Registration now open.


Peak experiences—both sexual and spiritual—are the result of just the right combination of safety and risk. In this workshop you’ll learn how to build or expand your capacity to take an erotic risk—safely.

Erotic courage—and courage in general—is simply the willingness to expand and grow stronger. It’s the readiness and the enthusiasm to step further into your totality of possibilities—and one step closer to the “something more” you’ve been longing for. You don’t have to muster the courage to do something huge, outrageous, or uncharacteristically bold. You need just enough courage to embrace your own authenticity—however meek or wild that might be.

Whether you’d like to bring fresh inspiration and energy into an existing relationship, bring your authentic erotic self into a new relationship, or strengthen any of your courage muscles (erotic or otherwise) you’ll learn how to think outside the box, break old habits, find creative possibilities, and let go and embrace your new ecstatic future.

All genders, sexual orientations and relationship configurations welcome. No nudity or explicit sexual touch.

September 2021

The Urban Tantra Professional Training Program
Greenwich, NY, USA
Registration open now!

This is the signature Urban Tantra® intensive workshop. It is designed especially for—but is not limited to—people who work with sex and sexuality. The Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program will give you the skills to take your practice to the next level—both personally and professionally. Whether you are a tantrika, a pro domme, a daka/dakini, a sex therapist, a sex educator, a companion, or anyone else who uses or wants to use a more conscious approach to sexuality in your practice, this program is for you.

This intensive six-day immersion experience includes:

  • How to create gender-neutral practices that will allow you to work with people of all genders and sexual preferences.
  • Unique Urban Tantric breathing techniques and exercises to empower both you and your client.
  • How to give your client/student what s/he wants and needs without compromising the integrity of your process.
  • How the “dark arts” of BDSM (including fantasy, roleplay, conscious power exchange and intense sensation) can expand your Tantra practice into ecstatic new realms.
  • How Tantra (including breath, ritual, movement, and conscious touch) can enrich your BDSM practice with deeper and darker meaning.
  • How to adapt your language to attract and keep a more diverse client/student base.
  • The most effective marketing techniques to connect you with new clients, plus effective screening protocols to ensure that only the perfect clients arrive on your doorstep.
  • Plus a curriculum designed to accommodate participants’ individual interests.
29 May - 6 June 2021

Camp Crucible!
Northern Maryland

Stay tuned for this year’s activities and festivities. Sign up for the mailing list and you’ll be the first to know when registration opens.

17 September 2021
Tantra in Community: How the power of shared breath and erotic intention can inspire healing and change. Plus, a Breath and Energygasm Workshop.
Brooklyn, NY

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