Here’s my calendar of upcoming events.

Check back often as I add new events regularly. Can’t get to a workshop? Try Sex/Life Coaching. Click here for more information or to make an appointment.


Even though you can’t see me in person this month, you can still take a workshop with me! My online course Orgasms With Spirit is available on demand! This downloadable series incorporates all the most popular segments of my internationally acclaimed in-person workshops.

In this 4-lesson course, you’ll find the connection between sexuality and spirituality by learning techniques that will add sensuality to your spirituality and sacredness to your sex life.

The cornerstone of this class is the connection between breath and erotic energy. Experience one of the most effective ways to connect spirit and sex—a breath an energy orgasm—literally, an orgasm with spirit.

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The New Revised Edition of Urban Tantra is available for online ordering—in print, Kindle, E-Book , and Audio formats!


Learn Breath and Energy Orgasms at home with this instant digital download—Breath and Energy Orgasms: A Guided Meditation.

Every Wednesday

Healing Circle for Gay Men Living Through Their Second Plague
Online via Zoom and the Tantra 4 Gay Men App
12 noon LA / 3 pm NYC / 8 pm London

Are you a gay or bisexual man who is living through the second major pandemic of his lifetime?

Are you having flashbacks when you see healthcare workers in hazmat suits? Does your stomach churn when you see rolling obituary listings under a title like “Those We’ve Lost”? Are you afraid that your immune system isn’t strong enough to survive another epidemic? Is your survivor’s guilt through the roof?

It’s time for a healing circle. I facilitated hundreds of Healing Circles during the AIDS pandemic. It helped us all feel empowered, loved and connected. Healing circles got us through years of pure hell. It feels like time for a revival. So I’m facilitating a weekly healing circle for survivors of the AIDS pandemic. And it’s available through the Tantra4GayMen app.

18 August 2020

Ecstatic Breathwork
Online via Zoom and the New York Open Center
4 pm PT / 7 pm ET
Registration now open.

Breath is your greatest source of energy and aliveness. It can produce so much pleasure, it will amaze you. In this workshop we will learn and practice a variety of simple breath techniques that you can put together to create unlimited erotic and spiritual possibilities. Then we’ll use them to explore the the vast range of orgasms which lie beyond those achieved by genital stimulation, such as emotion-gasms, inspiration-gasms, spirit-gasms, or creation-gasms. Finally, we’ll practice energy orgasm techniques that you’ll be able to incorporate into whatever kind of sex, play or meditation you enjoy.

Note: All genders, sexual preferences and relationship configurations welcome. No nudity or explicit sexual touch.

18 September 2020
Tantra in Community: How the power of shared breath and erotic intention can inspire healing and change. Plus, a Breath and Energygasm Workshop.
Brooklyn, NY
1 October 2020

Booksigning, Reading and Mini-Workshop
Urban Tantra & Ecstasy is Necessary
5 pm – 8 pm
Era Nova Bookshop
Kasarmikatu 2
00140 Helsinki, Finland
Instagram: @eranovabookshop
Facebook: Era Nova Bookshop

2 October 2020

Ecstasy is Necessary: How To Introduce Pleasure Into Counselling
2:30 pm – 4 pm
Instagram: @sexpofi
Facebook: Sexpo-säätiö

Humans are pleasure seeking beings. Pleasurable, body-based peak experiences offer countless opportunities for transformation and healing—both on their own and in combination with traditional approaches. But what is the role of pleasure in clinical situations?  In this talk, Barbara will show us how healing professionals can introduce their clients to body-based pleasurable techniques safely and appropriately.

3 - 4 October 2020

The Urban Tantra Experience: Conscious Breath and Touch
A Weekend Workshop
Helsinki, Finland

In this weekend workshop you’ll discover how conscious breath and touch can help you reveal and realize your sexual potential. You will learn Erotic Awakening Massage techniques through demonstrations, and Energy Orgasms through practice. This workshop is for people working with pleasure and human sexuality. Whether you have have only wondered about Tantra or have practiced it for years, this workshop is for you. It’s appropriate for all levels of experience. You can be single, coupled or be in any other relationship configuration. All genders and sexual preferences are welcome. No nudity or sexual touch is required or expected from participants. (There will be nudity and sexual touch within the erotic massage demonstrations.) There will be partnered practices and singles will be paired with consent. To be assured of working with a partner of your choice, come with a friend.

17 - 22 April 2021

The Urban Tantra Professional Training Program
Greenwich, NY, USA
Registration open now!

This is the signature Urban Tantra® intensive workshop. It is designed especially for—but is not limited to—people who work with sex and sexuality. The Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program will give you the skills to take your practice to the next level—both personally and professionally. Whether you are a tantrika, a pro domme, a daka/dakini, a sex therapist, a sex educator, a companion, or anyone else who uses or wants to use a more conscious approach to sexuality in your practice, this program is for you.

This intensive six-day immersion experience includes:

  • How to create gender-neutral practices that will allow you to work with people of all genders and sexual preferences.
  • Unique Urban Tantric breathing techniques and exercises to empower both you and your client.
  • How to give your client/student what s/he wants and needs without compromising the integrity of your process.
  • How the “dark arts” of BDSM (including fantasy, roleplay, conscious power exchange and intense sensation) can expand your Tantra practice into ecstatic new realms.
  • How Tantra (including breath, ritual, movement, and conscious touch) can enrich your BDSM practice with deeper and darker meaning.
  • How to adapt your language to attract and keep a more diverse client/student base.
  • The most effective marketing techniques to connect you with new clients, plus effective screening protocols to ensure that only the perfect clients arrive on your doorstep.
  • Plus a curriculum designed to accommodate participants’ individual interests.
29 May - 6 June 2021

Camp Crucible!
Northern Maryland

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