I’m Launching a Brand New Series of Workshops: The Urban Tantra Experience
A New York Magazine pick for a perfect holiday gift!
You told me what you wanted, and I listened!
I’ve created a new series for all of you who asked for longer, more in-depth Urban Tantra workshops. The Urban Tantra Experience premieres in April at Eastover Estate and Retreat in Lenox, MA—a beautiful retreat center in the Berkshires in […]In Memory of Raelyn Gallina
Last night I heard about the passing of our beloved Raelyn Gallina. Raelyn’s influence on me is so huge it’s hard to encapsulate in one post. Raelyn was (among other things) a jeweler, a piercer, a body modification artist of the hight order, a powerful priestess and a plant magician. She pierced me many times. […]
A Plea for Help for Kate Bornstein
Hello friends and family,
Kate Bornstein, my partner in life, love and art, need your help.
As many of you know, Kate’s lung cancer is back. It reappeared in late December in a lymph node behind her collarbone. The good news is that it did not travel far from it’s original site. Recent scans show it’s not […]
Eulogy For My Dad
Delivered at Jesus Saviour Church in Newport R.I. on the snowy morning of 10 December 2013…
I lost two hugely important influences in my life within 24 hours this past week, Nelson Mandela and my Dad, Ernest J. Carrellas. As I was thinking about their lives I realized how many of—all of us perhaps—have our lives […]
Why The 2nd Amendment Is No Longer Necessary
There have been 19 mass shootings (defined as killing more than 5 people in each) in the USA since 2009. In Australia? Zero. Why? The Australian government passed strict gun control laws following the Port Arthur massacre in 1996.
In an interview on The Takeaway on NPR this morning Ruth Bader Ginsburg gave a history lesson […]
Check out these upcoming workshops in NYC with Zahava Griss.
What a wonderful time I had at my Urban Tantra workshop the Open Center on Saturday, 7 September! I was assisted for the third time by the gorgeous and talented Zahava Griss. Zahava has some wonderful workshops of her own coming up. Check them out!
Sacred Woman Alchemy (Oct 1 – Dec 13) Now accepting applications for […]
Conscious Sexuality and Gender
Today we have a guest post by my friend and colleague, Artemisia de Vine, conscious sex worker, kink practitioner and author of the upcoming book, “Lessons from a Whore”. www.consciouseroticarts.com and www.consciouskink.com. Artemesia and other graduate members of the Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program frequently discuss the practical applications of seeing gender beyond the binary of masculine/feminine. […]
Orgasms with Spirit—Registration Now Open For My NEW Online Class
This live online course in partnership with Hay House incorporates all the most popular segments of my in-person workshops. So now, no matter where you live, you can attend a workshop with me!
The core of my work is the connection between sexuality and spirituality. In this 4-week workshop, you’ll learn techniques that will add sensuality […]
An Introduction to Vibrators
Today we have a guest editorial by Stephanie Cohen, a writer and sex toy enthusiast from South Carolina, who has kindly offered to answer some questions I have been receiving about vibrators. Thanks, Stephanie!
Keeping yourself satisfied in bed is important, whether it be with yourself or your partner, but figuring out different ways to do so can […]
My Sexual Permission Slip
Today I’ll be talking about Permission and Possibilities on The Ecstasy Hour on Hay House Radio at 5 pm Eastern/2 pm Pacific. Here’s a handy way to give yourself more sexual permission. Repeat each point until you feel you really believe you have that permission.
My Sexual Permission Slip
I give myself permission to talk about sex.
I […]