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  • The Path to Sexual and Spiritual Freedom

    July 2, 2022July 2, 2022 ByBarbara Carrellas 0

    I invite you to think about your sexual and spiritual freedoms—those freedoms you have, those you’re still fighting for, and those you may lose.

    This first weekend in July, and specifically 4 July, is celebrated in the United States as Independence Day. It’s the anniversary of the day back in 1776 when the white founding fathers […]

  • “Will we ever feel ecstatic again?” A message for Solstice.

    December 20, 2021December 21, 2021 ByBarbara Carrellas 0

    I’ve got a feeling, that keeps me on my toes
    I’ve got a feeling, I think that everybody knows
    Everybody had a hard year
    Everybody had a good time
    Everybody had a wet dream
    Everybody saw the sunshine
    Everybody had a good year
    Everybody let their hair down
    Everybody pulled their socks up
    Everybody put their foot down
    I’ve got a feeling…I’ve got a feeling…
    ~John […]

  • The Urban Tantra Post-Pandemic Process—Step 3

    June 24, 2021 ByBarbara Carrellas 0

    Step 3: Find Your Superpower.
         We all have Superpowers. While we can easily name and describe other people’s superpowers, it can be difficult to identify and name our own. That’s partially because we take our superpowers for granted, but it’s also because bragging about how great and talented and kind we are is generally […]

  • The Urban Tantra Post-Pandemic Process—Step 2

    June 22, 2021November 7, 2021 ByBarbara Carrellas 0

    Step 2: Forgive Yourself.

         I am forgiving myself for everything I did not accomplish last year while everyone else (I imagine) was baking sourdough, remodeling their house, writing a book and learning to speak Italian.

         Whatever you and I did or did not do was perfect because we stayed alive. That was our […]

  • The Post-Pandemic Summer of Love

    June 20, 2021 ByBarbara Carrellas 0

         Fifteen months ago, a client told me that one of their intentions was to get ready for the “Summer of Love” they they suspected would follow all the quarantines, lockdowns and social distancing. Well, for some of us that Summer of Love might be starting now, or will be starting later this summer […]

  • Ecstatic Resilience

    February 21, 2021February 23, 2021 ByBarbara Carrellas 0

    It’s been One. Whole. Year. Four seasons have passed. Birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, weddings, and funerals have all gone uncelebrated, or celebrated with a handful of people carefully spaced two metres apart, or alone in front of a screen. We’re tired, worn down, depressed. Even the exceedingly creative ways we’ve discovered to gather together or create […]

  • Some Resources For These Times—Including The Rockettes!

    April 4, 2020 ByBarbara Carrellas 0

    I began my Tantric practice many years ago during the AIDS pandemic. I was looking for a spiritual practice that was body and sex positive, that could support me in the huge emotional shifts I was going through, and that provided a sense of healing, purpose and peace. Urban Tantra was born out of both […]

  • Why Tantra Now?

    February 19, 2020August 1, 2022 ByBarbara Carrellas 1

    Lately I’ve noticed a significant increase in the number of people who contact me to learn about Tantra. Well you might think, is that really so odd? The media, and the culture at large, pretty much demand we focus on love and relationships in the weeks leading up to Valentines Day. But that has definitely […]

  • Introducing Igniting Intimacy: Sex Magic Rituals for Radical Living and Loving by Rev. Rowan Bombadil

    December 13, 2019January 3, 2020 ByBarbara Carrellas 0

    Magic is the art of transformation. It’s the ability to imagine an alternative existence and then create and sustain that existence. Sex is one of the easiest ways to experience magic in action. Sex magic both requires and creates in us the ability to see, hear, feel, taste, smell, and just plain know that there is a […]

  • IMsLBB 2019 Keynote

    April 14, 2019April 14, 2019 ByBarbara Carrellas 0

    This is the keynote address I gave at the 2019 International Ms Leather/Bootblack weekend, 11 – 14 April 2019.
    I’d like to begin by acknowledging that we are standing on the ancestral lands of the Ohlone and Tamyen people. I want to pay respects to their elders past and present. Please take a moment to consider […]

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Hi, I'm Barbara Carrellas

This is the closest thing I’ll ever have to a blog. It’s a place where I collect and share the sublime oddities and random thoughts that delight, inspire, fascinate, excite and soothe me.

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  • “Will we ever feel ecstatic again?” A message for Solstice.
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