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  • Mar 01 2012 March 1, 2012July 8, 2018

    “Thinking Off”

    ByBarbara Carrellas InBreath 1

    “Thinking Off” or How to Have a Breath and Energy Orgasm

    If you are one of the many people who saw my segment, “Unusual Orgasms” on the Learning Channel’s Strange Sex show, welcome! Here are answers to some of your frequently asked questions:

    1. I do not use the term “thinking off.”
    “Thinking off” is the term the producers of the show wanted to use, but that term is much too limiting. Non-genitally based orgasms are achieved by different people in different ways, but very few people use only their minds to achieve these orgasms. The kind of orgasms you saw me and my workshop participants have on Strange Sex were achieved with a combination of breath, imagining (either by visualization or sensory feelings), sound, and squeezing the muscles of the pelvic floor. Sound complicated? It’s not really. It just takes a little practice.

    2. How can I learn to “think off”?
    Subscribe to my newsletter! You’ll get two free gifts, including “How To Have An Energy Orgasm”. You can more detailed instructions and additional ways to have a breath and energy orgasm in my book, Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century. There is an entire section devoted to breath and energy orgasms. I am also in the process of recording a step-by-step CD guide to accompany the breath and energy orgasm section of the book. Sign up for my newsletter and you will be among the first to hear when it’s finished. I also teach the technique in many of my workshops. Check out my calendar of events to find out where I will be when.

    "Thinking Off"3. I have spinal nerve damage and I can’t have regular orgasms. Can I have one with this technique?
    Yes! The technique can also be used by people with erectile dysfunction, women who have had clitorectomies, and anyone with a physical condition that makes genital orgasms difficult or impossible.

    4. I missed the show. Will it be on again?
    Yes! It’s being rerun fairly regularly. Visit the Learning Channel for the schedule.

    5. Where else can I learn about “thinking off”?
    Watch this video of Barbara talking to Joy Behar about “thinking off.”

    Questions? Want to host a breath and energy orgasm workshop in your town?

    Contact me at info@urbantantra.org.

  • Dec 07 2010 December 7, 2010

    Divas Celebrate Sondheim

    ByBarbara Carrellas InUn-Blog 0

    One of the most thrilling collections of diva performances on one stage in years! All to celebrate Sondheim’s 80th birthday.

  • Aug 04 2010 August 4, 2010

    The Totality of Possibilities with Louise Hay

    ByBarbara Carrellas InUn-Blog 0

    Louise Hay and I discuss the Totality of Possibilities. Louise’s brilliant and inspiring 1989 talk became the basis for so much of my work.

  • Jul 30 2010 July 30, 2010

    Thinking Off with Joy Behar

    ByBarbara Carrellas InUn-Blog 0

    Breath and energy orgasms go mainstream. Joy Behar and I talk about how and why to have them on CNN!

  • Jul 29 2010 July 29, 2010

    BatPug!

    ByBarbara Carrellas InUn-Blog 0

    Pugs: Earth’s most talented (and funniest) creatures.

  • Jul 11 2010 July 11, 2010

    Angela Lansbury On Post-Menopausal Sensuality

    ByBarbara Carrellas InUn-Blog 0

    Angela Lansbury shows us all how to stay positive, sensual and sexual after menopause. She’s an international treasure.

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