• How to Have an Ecstatic Solstice

    Stay in the present moment.

    Don’t try so hard. 

    Stay in the present moment. 

    Drop your expectations and your judgments. 

    Stay in the present moment. 


    Stay in the present moment. 

    Be conscious. 

    Stay in the present moment. 

    Practice doing all of this throughout your holidays…

    …in the present moment.

    Happy Solstice!

    With Love and Ecstasy from Barbara Carrellas and the international Urban Tantra Team:

    Hayley Caspers, Jazz Goldman, David Lola Houston, Amanda Gay Love, Tara Phillips, Calle Rebinder, Jennie Rehbinder,

    Electra Amore, Catherine Carter, Cyndi Darnell,

    DK Green, Rebecca Lowrie, Rowan Tinca Parkes,

    Eve Minax, Mollena Williams.

  • Announcing 2015 Dates for the Urban Tantra Professional Training Program

    I’m thrilled to announce the worldwide dates for 2015:

    Copenhagen, Denmark  5-10 May 2015 

    Melbourne, Australia  15-20 September 2015

    London, U.K.  20-25 October 2015

    Register now and you’ll receive the earliest of early-bird rates available.

    In addition to all you’ll learn in the training program, you’ll receive ongoing benefits as part of the Urban Tantra Community, including: 

    • A free listing in the Practitioner Directory on the UTPTP web site. When I am asked for referrals, this is where I send people. So do our graduates. 

    • Free listings for any of your Workshops and Events, worldwide. 

    • Membership in an extraordinarily active and supportive private Facebook group. This worldwide, safe and supportive network has helped our graduates with everything from challenging client issues, to personal creative crises, to housing support on the road. 

    • Visibility in the Urban Tantra Community News—a weekly online news digest dedicated to the purpose of informing the world about the amazing and life changing work that our graduates are doing.   

    The Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program is designed especially for—but is not limited to—people who work with sex and sexuality. This intensive workshop will give you the skills to take your practice to the next level—both personally and professionally. Whether you are a tantrika, a pro domme, a daka/dakini, a sex therapist, a sex educator, a companion, or anyone else who uses or wants to use a more conscious approach to sexuality in your practice, this program is for you.

    Still unsure? Email our local coordinators and have a chat. They will explain the program in detail so you can be sure it’s right for you. 

    For Copenhagen contact Calle and Jennie: callejennie@urbantantra.org 

    For Melbourne contact Tara: tara@urbantantra.org 

    For London contact Amanda: amanda@urbantantra.org

    I am looking forward to seeing you in 2015! 



  • I’m Launching a Brand New Series of Workshops: The Urban Tantra Experience

    A New York Magazine pick for a perfect holiday gift!

    UTE Best Sally copy

    You told me what you wanted, and I listened!

    I’ve created a new series for all of you who asked for longer, more in-depth Urban Tantra workshops. The Urban Tantra Experience premieres in April at Eastover Estate and Retreat in Lenox, MA—a beautiful retreat center in the Berkshires in Western Massachusetts.

    Why look any further for that special holiday gift? What could be lovelier than a spring weekend of Tantra in the mountains?

    The Urban Tantra Experience: Breath and Touch
    Rejuvenate your relationship in the Berkshires. The Urban Tantra Experience is an approach to sacred sexuality that adapts and blends conscious sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM into a hot and healing brand of sex for the 21st century sensualist. Learn the secrets for giving and receiving a body-melting, mind-altering, sensual and erotic massage. You’ll also learn how conscious breath and energy work can transform touch into a deeply intimate ecstatic encounter. All genders and sexual preferences welcome.

    Register here:  www.urbantantraexperience.com

    17-18-19 April 2015
    Friday 7:00 pm – 9:30 pm
    Saturday 10 am – 5 pm
    Sunday 10 am – 3 pm

    $840 – $1200 (depending on choice of room) Includes food and lodging.