Barbara Carrellas | Urban Tantra

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Barbara Carrellas

Barbara's Vision

I Believe...

  • that the universe is conspiring in our favor.
  • that pleasure is good and ecstasy is necessary.
  • in an embodied spirituality that celebrates the body as a path to spiritual growth, awareness and freedom.
  • in the power of love to heal.
  • that the combination of love, consciousness, and sexual energy can change anything.

Work with Barbara


What is Sex/Life Coaching with Barbara Carrellas?

Sex/Life Coaching is a process in which we work together to reveal your essential greatness. Whatever your sexual issue, concern, perceived limitation, expectation or goal, Sex/Life Coaching can help bring you into alignment with your deepest desires.


Sex/Life Coaching acknowledges, appreciates and utilizes the inseparable connection between your sex life and the rest of your life. When you expand your capacity for sensual and sexual pleasure, you expand your capacity for abundance, love and joy in all areas of your life.



Available Now!

The New Revised Edition of Urban Tantra  is available for online ordering—choose paperback, e-book, or audio book.

Online now!

Orgasms With Spirit is available on demand! This downloadable series incorporates all the most popular segments of my internationally acclaimed in-person workshops.

5 - 10 September 2024

The Urban Tantra Professional Training Program
Greenwich, NY
Registration open now!


Online Sex

Online Sex Classes

I am thrilled to partner with my dear friend—erotic pioneer Joseph Kramer—to bring you the best online erotic instruction available today. Watch online tutorials by some of my favorite erotic educators, including Joseph, Chester Mainard and Annie Sprinkle, among many others. And be sure to catch my new video—Transcendent Bodies.


These demonstrations of solo and partnered erotic practices will introduce you to new erotic possibilities as they stimulate your creativity and playfulness. There is no better place to educate your hands and your heart.


Books & MP3s


If you ever thought Tantra wasn’t for you—too foreign or gimmicky or New Agey, or not edgy enough for your radical sex explorations—Barbara Carrellas will cure you of all misconceptions and bring you an Urban Tantra to unite your sex, your spirit, your erotic wanderlust, your edge.Carol Queen, author of Real Live Nude Girl.


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“Barbara Carrellas is a brilliant writer. She has a unique way of making her readers feel comfortable exploring avenues of sexuality they have longed to know about. To Barbara, being sexual is as normal and comfortable as breathing, and she would like all of us to feel this way.”Louise Hay, author of Empowering Women and You Can Heal Your Life


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“Barbara Carrellas is my favorite sex educator on the planet. She’s classy, sassy and wise with vast sexual experience. In Luxurious Loving, Barbara graciously shares her expertise in the most delightful ways. I’m crazy about this book: It’s full of superb information; it’s great fun and it’s sexy, sexy, sexy. Guaranteed to enhance absolutely anyone’s sex life.”Annie Sprinkle, Ph.D. author of Planet Orgasm


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Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program

The Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program is much more than a training program. It is a Urban-Tantra community, a philosophy, and an inclusive sacred sexuality practice that supports both personal and professional goals

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