Upcoming Events


Here’s my calendar of upcoming events. Check back often as I am adding many new events for 2014. Can’t get to a workshop? Try Sex/Life Coaching. Click here for more information or to make an appointment.



On-Demand Workshop Available Now: Orgasms with Spirit

If you can’t see me in person this month, you can still take a workshop with me! My online course Orgasms With Spirit is now available on demand! This downloadable series incorporates all the most popular segments of my internationally acclaimed in-person workshops. In this 4-lesson course, you’ll find the connection between sexuality and spirituality by learning techniques that will add sensuality to your spirituality and sacredness to your sex life. The cornerstone of this class is the connection between breath and erotic energy. Experience one of the most effective ways to connect spirit and sex—a breath an energy orgasm—literally, an orgasm with spirit

15 – 18 January 2015
Southwest Leather Conference
Phoenix, AZ

Kate and I will make our annual pilgrimage to this unique, inspiring and frequently life-changing event.

6 – 8 February 2015
Winter Wickedness 
Columbus, OH

I will be presenting Sex and the Tao of Power Exchange and Kinky Twisted Tantra, and having a heck of a good time at this Kinkstravaganza!

14 February 2014
Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the 21st Century
New York Open Center
New York City

10:00 am – 5:30pm

Urban Tantra® is a radically updated Tantra practice for modern sexual and spiritual explorers—it can be used anywhere and by everyone. Tantra is not only a sexual practice, it also is a sensuous way of life and a path to spiritual growth and fulfillment. On the Tantric path, pleasure, vision and ecstasy are celebrated and can be as available in everyday life as they are in peak sexual experiences. In this workshop, you’ll learn Tantric techniques for intense full-bodied orgasms, breath-and-energy orgasms, amazingly deep, heart-centered connections (with a partner or with yourself), and the bliss that comes when your spiritual and sexual paths are one. This workshop is for couples, singles, and others. All genders and sexual preferences are welcome. There will be no nudity and no explicit sexual touch. There will be partnered practices in the afternoon. Singles will be paired, with consent. To be assured of working with a partner of your choice, come with a friend.

27 – 29 March 2015
Catalyst Con
Washington, D.C.

CatalystCon is a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. It is about reaching out and stimulating those who attend to create those important conversations in their own communities, changing how we as a society talk about and treat sexuality. I will be presenting a workshop/discussion called “Illegal Touch in the USA.”

9 – 12 April 2015
International Ms. Leather
San Jose, CA

I haven’t been to this event in years. I am so looking forward to seeing how it has changed under the leadership of my good friends, Sharrin Spector and Pat Baillie.

16 – 19 April 2015
Urban Tantra® Experience: Breath and Touch
Eastover Resort and Retreat Center
Lenox, MA

I’ve created a new series for all of you who asked for longer, more in-depth Urban Tantra workshops. This series premieres this spring at the beautiful Eastover retreat in the Berkshires. Rejuvenate your relationship in this three-day Urban Tantra retreat. The Urban Tantra Experience

is an approach to sacred sexuality that adapts and blends conscious sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM into a hot and healing brand of sex for the 21st century sensualist. Learn the secrets for giving and receiving a body-melting, mind-altering, sensual and erotic massage. You’ll also learn how conscious breath and energy work can transform touch into a deeply intimate ecstatic encounter. All genders and sexual preferences welcome.

5 – 10 May 2015
Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program
Register Now! Email Calle & Jennie Rehbinder at callejennie@urbantantra.org.

Urban Tantra® is a radically updated conscious sexuality/sacred sex practice for modern sexual and spiritual explorers. This intensive workshop is designed especially for—but is not limited to—people who work with sex and sexuality. The Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program will give you the skills to take your practice to the next level—both personally and professionally. Whether you are a tantrika, a pro domme, a daka/dakini, a sex therapist, a sex educator, a companion, or anyone else who uses or wants to use a more conscious approach to sexuality in your practice, this program is for you. Urban Tantra modernizes, revels in, teases, and plays with traditional Tantra, all while honoring Tantra’s rich spiritual tradition of connection. As a professional, you want to teach what is closest to your heart, while also maintaining a successful business. You’ll learn how easily accessible language and simple techniques can help you share your powerful message in today’s, fast-paced, goal-oriented, pleasure-starved world. Barbara will help you create the ultimate path of pleasure for your clients/students, allowing them to access their most divine selves. You’ll be able to offer your clients/students immediate results and the promise of more bliss to come. With Urban Tantra, the world is your client.

23 – 31 May 2015
Camp Crucible
Northern MD

I could never miss my favorite kinky, sexy, Ramblewood event—a delicious 9 days and 8 nights! I’ll be bringing new workshops and events and partnering with some amazingly creative friends to create even more delicious love and mayhem to the event described as “Too Much Fun”.

5 – 10 June 2015
Sheffield DocFest
Sheffield, U.K.

DocFest is my Burning Man. I had one of the best weeks of my life there last year. I’m going back for more documentaries, great events, fabulous people and infinite creative inspiration.

15 – 20 September 2015
Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program
Melbourne, Australia

See Description Above. Register Now! Email Tara Phillips at tara@urbantantra.org.

20 – 25 October 2015
Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program
London, U.K.

See Description Above. Register Now! Email Amanda Gay Love at amanda@urbantantra.org.