Upcoming Events

Here’s my calendar of upcoming events. Check back often as I am adding many new events for 2013. Can’t get to a workshop? Try Sex/Life Coaching. Click here for more information or to make an appointment.
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25 May – 2 June 2013
Camp Crucible
Northern Maryland
Yup, I’m going back to camp for my third year of too much fun! I love this classic pansexual, BDSM, swingers, fantasy roleplay retreat. I’ll be facilitating 3 workshops (Tantra for Triads, Quads, and More—Oh My!, Energy Play 101, and Facilitating Ecstasy) plus, with Whittney Matlock, I’ll be hosting The Orgasm Contest! (See what I mean about “too much fun”?)
1 June – 10 June 2013
The Hay House World Summit
Online Here and it’s FREE!
I am beyond excited to offer you my recent talk—Sex + Spirit = Ecstasy—as part of the 2013 Hay House World Summit. I’ll tell you why I think ecstasy is so necessary and how you can find it on a regular basis in sex, spirituality and in all the stuff of ordinary, daily life. I’ll also give you my 3-step plan for hotter sex, more blissful relationships, and a more ecstatic life. My talk will air all day on 7 June.
I’ll be joined in the Hay House World Summit by over 100 of the best and the brightest speakers, authors and teachers on the planet. Listen FREE to 110 hours of incredible wisdom as these experts share their stories, powerful exercises and practical advice on how to live your best life.
Or, if 100 speakers in 10 days is a bit too much of a great thing all at once, you can purchase the entire series at affordable rates and listen at your leisure all summer long.
17 July -7 August 2013
Orgasms With Spirit
Online Class
You asked and I listened. No matter where you live, you can now attend a workshop with me! This live online course in partnership with Hay House incorporates all the most popular segments of my in-person workshops.
The core of my work is the connection between sexuality and spirituality. In this 4-week workshop, you’ll learn techniques that will add sensuality to your spirituality and sacredness to your sex life. You’ll learn the importance of ecstatic experiences and practice simple, powerful techniques that will increase your desire, expand your orgasms, reignite your relationships, and bring sensuality and pleasure into every aspect of your life. The cornerstone of this class is the connection between breath and erotic energy. You’ll even get a chance to experience one of the most effective ways to connect spirit and sex-a breath an energy orgasm-literally, an orgasm with spirit.
As an added bonus, when you purchase this course you’ll receive a FREE copy of my best-selling book, Ecstasy is Necessary! Register now and take advantage of the early bird price!
Lesson 1: Orgasm: The Totality of Possibilities
July 17, 2013, 4:00 pm –5:30 pm, Pacific / 7:00 pm–8:30 pm, Eastern
We’ll begin by expanding our definition of orgasm. We’ll explore the many different types of orgasms beyond those achieved solely by stimulation of the genitals. Next, I’ll introduce the energetic building blocks of sex: breath, imagination, movement, sound, touch, and more. You’ll have the opportunity to practice each skill in short guided meditations.
Lesson 2: How To Have a Breath and Energy Orgasm
July 24, 2013, 4:00 pm – 5:30 pm, Pacific / 7:00 pm – 8:30 pm, Eastern
This week I’ll teach you how to put all the energetic building blocks of sex together to have a breath and energy orgasm, full-body orgasm. I’ll not only explain the technique, I’ll give you the opportunity to get comfortable and breathe along during a guided how-to meditation. You can have a breath and energy orgasm in the privacy of your own home during this class!
Lesson 3: Sacred Sex with a Partner
July 31, 2013, 4:00 pm –5:30 pm, Pacific / 7:00 pm–8:30 pm, Eastern
This week you’ll learn Tantric techniques for building and sharing sexual energy with a partner. Simple techniques such as breath, laughter, ritual, movement, and conscious touch can expand our concept of gender roles, help us transcend fears of intimacy, and enable us to build and share enormous amounts of sexual and spiritual energy and power. Whatever your gender, sexual preference, or sexual style, you’ll be able to adapt these techniques to create unlimited erotic possibilities.
Lesson 4: Sex Magic
August 7, 2013, 4:00 pm –5:30 pm, Pacific / 7:00 pm–8:30 pm, Eastern
This week I’ll introduce the concept and practice of sex magic, or erotic prayer. We practice sex magic when we consciously and ethically use our sexual energy to fuel our hopes, dreams and desires. Sex magic is the art of transforming real but invisible sexual energy into real and visible results. You can dedicate your sexual energy for the benefit of yourself, your community and your world. Tonight’s workshop will end with a breath-focused, sex magic, chakra meditation that will allow you to practice sex magic for a personal desire or cause.
If you can’t make the live airdates, you can still join me! For your convenience, all participants automatically receive downloadable mp3s of all 4 lessons. Each lesson will be uploaded into your account within a few days of its live airdate and will then be available with unlimited On-Demand access! Hay House will send you a notification email when each lesson is available to download from your account. So you can still take the course no matter what your schedule!
Register now and take advantage of the early bird price!
7 September 2013
Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the 21st Century
New York Open Center
New York City
212.219.2527
10:00 am – 5:30pm
Urban Tantra® is a radically updated Tantra practice for modern sexual and spiritual explorers—it can be used anywhere and by everyone. Tantra is not only a sexual practice, it also is a sensuous way of life and a path to spiritual growth and fulfillment. On the Tantric path, pleasure, vision and ecstasy are celebrated and can be as available in everyday life as they are in peak sexual experiences. In this workshop, you’ll learn Tantric techniques for intense full-bodied orgasms, breath-and-energy orgasms, amazingly deep, heart-centered connections (with a partner or with yourself), and the bliss that comes when your spiritual and sexual paths are one.
This workshop is for both couples and singles. All genders and sexual preferences are welcome. There will be no nudity and no explicit sexual touch. There will be partnered practices in the afternoon. Singles will be paired, with consent. To be assured of working with a partner of your choice, come with a friend.
