Ecstasy is Necessary book by Barbara Carrellas

In Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh, So Much More, Barbara dives deep into the world of ecstatic experience, beginning with the medium through which most people experience ecstasy—sex.

However, this is much more than your typical sex book; it is an exploration of the entire erotic self and the infinite possibilities of ecstatic expression. Not only will it teach you how to create new ecstatic experiences and relationships, it will also show you how to avoid screwing up the ones you already have.

Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century book by Barbara Carrellas

Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century is a book about consciousness cleverly disguised as a sex guide. It’s for everyone who would like to have a more sexual and spiritual ecstasy in their lives. Urban Tantra shows you how sacred sex can be practiced anywhere from ashrams to a lap dancing parlors—and in the time you actually have available in your busy life.

Urban Tantra is also the first queer, trans, and BDSM friendly Tantra book. Whether or not you have a partner and no matter what your age, sexual preferences or gender, you can begin to live a more joyful conscious life by learning how to practice joyful conscious sex. You can explore Urban Tantra step-by-step, as if attending your own private workshop, or you can jump in anywhere, trying out any of the 100+ exercises and techniques that appeal to you at the moment.


Luxurious Loving book by Barbara Carrellas

Luxurious Loving: Tantric Inspirations for Passion and Pleasure offers couples new/ancient ways to enjoy new heights and depths of erotic pleasure. When you can slow down and immerse yourself completely in the experience of either giving or receiving, time ceases, trust increases, intimacy deepens, and you reprogram the way you imagine, breathe, gaze, move, taste, touch, and connect.

Breath & Energy Orgasms mp3

Breath and Energy Orgasms: A Guided Meditation.

This technique can be a deeply healing and enlightening sexual meditation, producing waves of tingly sexual pleasure that surge through every part of the body. You may experience profound relaxation and powerful insights about your life or life in general. You may feel reborn. You will almost certainly discover a deeply meaningful thread running through breath, emotion, energy, and pleasure.

Here it is! A 30-minute guided mediation with a musical score.

Meeting your Inner Lover

The Pleasure Principle: Meeting Your Inner Lover.
The Pleasure Principle is really very simple. It honors physical and sexual pleasure as sacred, as healing, as a way of life and as a path to spiritual growth. The Pleasure Principle is a process in which we can learn to love ourselves and create positive change in our lives and in the world around us.

Learn the many ways you can eroticize all of life all the time, including your home, your wardrobe, your body, food, exercise and meditation.

How to Become a Sexual Healer

The Pleasure Principle: How to Become a Sexual Healer. The Pleasure Principle series is designed to show you how your sensuality and sexuality can be the key to greater health and happiness, how it can expand your spirituality and how sexual energy can be used as a powerful healing tool. Learn how your sexual energy can be the key to physical health, emotional well-being and spiritual transformation. A guided erotic healing meditation is included.


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Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program

The Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program is much more than a training program. It is a Urban-Tantra community, a philosophy, and an inclusive sacred sexuality practice that supports both personal and professional goals

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